We are in relationship with everything around us.
Is my attitude one of respect towards everyone I pass when I am walking in the street or do I only care for the people who love me?
Law of karma
– We can’t blame others for being negative towards us. Consider what it may be that I may have done wrong.
– In relationships, if I enter into a relationship because I want respect, I will find in the long term that the opposite happens.
Meditation is essential; it takes us beyond all the walls that we have created due to fear and allows us to start to create a positive attitude to life. The inner core within ourselves never changes and doesn’t know anything about conflict, like a child.
Every single one of us is a positive being inside. Go into the experience of being light. That experience takes us to a state of being in which we have relationships just to give. We are whole, that’s our original nature. Our true nature is of self respect and love, which brings automatic security. However we need to experience this to believe it.
What is missing in relationships today is this connection with our inner core of positivity.
1. Start with yourself. Do I have a relationship with myself? If I am building that relationship? The more that grows, the more I am going to give that to others.
2. Check your attitude. Just start giving respect. If I am needy of getting respect it’s selfish, recognise this and change it, and help others to do the same.
See the contrast through meditation.
– Am I seeing other’s weaknesses, getting annoyed by them and making that person my enemy?
– Whoever is passing by, see them as absolutely positive beings and observe how it feels.
– If you are feeling angry, don’t identify with it. Just say “I am feeling stressed but I am a peaceful soul”. Knowing who you are and knowing what you are feeling is real freedom.
– Write down the things that make you feel positive and keep re-reading it. It goes deep into subconscious without realising, and suddenly you will feel it.
– Limiting beliefs stops me from creating the attitude of accepting of myself, loving and approval of myself. I need to create that feeling of respect for myself, this opens up channels and then I can start to meditate.
Whatever we are experiencing is our creation. We are completely in control of what we choose to experience. There is no reason that we cannot experience our higher self, but what stops us is that we don’t believe in it. Sit on the driver’s seat and have full conviction about it.
